For adults in the lifestyle, non-monogamy, and poly communities
Come as you are.
Find your people.
Welcome to The Open Connection.
TOC brings people in the lifestyle together around friendship, shared experiences, and the ease of being yourself.
Our first 1,000 Charter Members get early gathering notices, first access to the shop, and 20% off their first order when we open.
Our promise
You came for freedom.
Stay for friendship.
Living this life should make your world bigger. More people to laugh with, travel with, text on a random Tuesday. TOC brings together people who understand how you live, whether that's LS, poly, spicy vanilla, or somewhere in between. A community you can grow with. Friendships that become part of your everyday life. And yes, sometimes more.
If you're curious about the lifestyle or ready to explore it, you're welcome here too. Come as you are. Ask questions. You don't need to have it all figured out to belong.
Charter Members
Be part of TOC from the beginning.
Join our first 1,000 Charter Members for early gathering notices, first access to the shop, and 20% off your first order when we open. Our way of saying thanks for being here early.
Charter discount valid on your first shop order. One use per member. Cannot be combined with other discounts.
Find us where you already hang out.
Find your TOC group on the platforms you already use. Come introduce yourself, get to know other members, and join the conversation.
Shop · Coming soon
Quiet signals.Everyday connection.
Apparel, accessories, and other everyday pieces designed with a subtle nod to the lifestyle. A little shared understanding, wherever your day takes you.
Charter Members get first access and 20% off their first order when the shop opens.
Become a Charter MemberWho's behind this
We wanted more waysto find each other.
We're Tommy and Bree. For us, part of what makes the lifestyle meaningful is meeting people we can be ourselves around. People who understand this part of our lives and want to know the rest of us, too.
We started TOC to help those friendships happen. To make it easier to find people you click with, spend time together, and stay in each other's lives.
We're glad you found us. We look forward to getting to know you.
Tommy & Bree